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Wednesday 22 October 2014

"Women are women's worst enemies" - Toyin Aimakhu lashes out at women

Actress Toyin Aimakhu Johnson posted this message to women on her instagram page. Read and tell us if you understand where she's coming from...

136 comments:

Uche Emma said...


So true

Anonymous said...

Truly speaking

Anonymous said...

ok...she apologized for d English.
i like her tho.

Dave Mide said...

Ooops! Her hubby has been cheating on her ass i fink hence the loud noise!

Uche Emma said...


I really don't know where she is coming from, but she sounds so true.

Linda, you should know better

APPLE said...

O girl you still need to go back to school o. What you said is true sha. I hope you have never slept with a married man? You are a good actress.

Unknown said...

I now understand the grammatical errors in the subtitle of yoruba movies..

Unknown said...

That's women for you madam.
⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

Unknown said...

I don't have the strength to read,
Faceoflib

ary said...

I CONCUR WITH WOMEN BEING THEIR OWN WORST ENEMIES! THAT SAID, CHAI HER ENGLISH NA FULLSTOP! GBUAI!!! AS IN NA FOR HER MIND ENGLISH SIDDON DIE!!! BUT WOMEN FORGET THE ENGLISH AND UNDERSTAND THE MESSAGE.

Unknown said...

nice write up......thumbs up

Dave Mide said...

"if na money you want, collect am" - That alone wrong all the write up, whats that? You wanna collect money from a man and then what? Men are weak? ok ..we are but we aint stupid either! Whatever ...her verdict like she said!

kike said...

I think she's just stupid. Always feeling righteous because she married a single puppet. Starting from the scratch my foot!

Bishop Dammy said...

So make sure you aren't an enemy to/of your fellow woman.. And if you think/know that somone is your enemy, here is what you should do: Rom 12:20. BishopDammy#

seunLondon said...

First still five lines and all I see is enormous grammatical blunders. ..Toyin but why? you don't write a piece like this and not get someone to proof read for you..#SeunLondon

OSINANL said...

She's right...

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Too long to digest but is no news that women are never friendly to themselfs.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

snowflix said...

Hehehehehehehe.... seems a lady wana snatch her boo frm her, Ehya Sister Toyin take heart inugo #onelovefromSnow#

Unknown said...

Trueeeee dat
Dt is why I dnt have female frnds
I appreciate my tomboy sef
Women and wahala walks togeda

Unknown said...

True talk ooo, someone is trying to take her man, after d single ladies gi talk say d man came after them, but u have a mouth to say NO, or d man force you too to open ur legs, we ladies need to be smart.

@Charming_rascal said...

Toyin thank God u remember to add don't mind my english if not eh.. I guess some people are goin near her husband. Nollywood actresses person husbands that u are snatching diaris God.. Stella Damascus snatched Doris Simeon's husband one Folape Sokoya accused Ronke Odusanya of Snatching her husband..

#The Theist

Anonymous said...

Blood of jesus, I must write by force. See english ohhh

shouldisaymyname said...

Appalling English everywhere in her post. Nigerians should stop this stupid trend of giving an excuse for bad English. English is our official language... Just my two cents.

Liddieberry said...

One major thing I cannot stand in a woman is NEGATIVITY... You tell your friend something with all enthusiasm only for you to hear response like "Are you sure this thing will work, some people have bn there and they failed" I use to have a friend like this. I had to move away from her... And as for ladies who COMPETE... I cant deal... Guys, I envy dem, they talk about ANYTHING.. But ladies, they can pretend for Africa. And ladies who chase men who are TAKEN, Your case no be for here obviously u are cheap. If I ever know that a guy is in a serious relationship, I will never ever give him any audience, not to talk of being married.. HELL NO. Ladies, respect yourselves and support each other(Sorry for the epistle, I LOOOOVE to write)

KWEEN said...

I totally understand where she's coming from. May God help us

Anonymous said...

Ode oShi! make them collect the money but not the man.

Anonymous said...

True talk but u self don chase other women husband before now.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Same thing I've been saying.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

OMA said...

Linda, i do not just understand where she is coming from, i totally agree with her. She has made some ETERNAL points... I was at first put off by her bad grammar but gladly forgave her when i read her own comments about it.

Toyin, you are soooo right. Women are their own worst enemy, every time, everywhere!

Anonymous said...

Women's ke

Unknown said...

What can I say...

BORN TO SHINE!!!

Unknown said...

Well said

FERNANDEZ said...

....and the last part dont mind my english made me love her more...
OMO ALAKADA

Joy Afe said...

Women like to compete even with someone who doesn't care

Anonymous said...

I keep saying it..Women are the real devil on this earth...They will crawl into your life and once u loose your guard and they noticed you've fall for them then their true behavior will come out!

Anonymous said...

she should go and learn how to communicate well in english first.confused woman

Mystique said...

Nice one Toyin! True but sad!

iyeyemi said...

Didnt want to 'mind' your english...but men...with all the errors, it's really a hard thing not to do

Kponskii said...

The grammatical blunder for dis her post no be here Ooo.

Unknown said...

True talk toyin,wat God has joined together let no woman put asunder.luv u toyin

Damini said...

Absolutely true. Wise words. Women should let go of envy and learn to support one another more..But Toyin, please work on your grammar. We know you're Nigerian but thats no excuse for mediocrity.

Anonymous said...

I love your opinion let's our fellow women keeper n not back butting our selves.

Anonymous said...

Story 4d gods. True sha o.. Bt d grammar tho..

Anonymous said...

The question should be tell us if you know wtf she's writing lol.

Anonymous said...

The grammar na wah! It actually deviates you from comprehending what she is pained about. Smh...

priceless jewel said...

With all ds babe's fake accent in movies,she can't even write without so many blunders...smh

priceless jewel said...

Being a nigerian isn't an excuse for bad grammar

Anonymous said...

So true! I don't get it women steady acting bitchy towards one another when they should be building each other up! I'm a woman and I know what it means. She's so right. You should see the shocking faces people get when I do nice stuff for women and they're like "girls aren't usually nice to each other now" only the other day I went to a bank to cash some money the woman looked from me to the cheque and back to me like I was a filthy person in a dirty place after giving me headache in cashing the cheque she gave me my money without nylon saying there's no nylon put it in your bag then went on to say ehn "the nylon is too big" madam am I complaining,an elderly woman at that and me youngin
. Hian. Women been slaying each other from time yo

ObsessivelyBeautiful said...

The bad English and constant repitition about men being weak made me bored at first glance.... Yawn

Anonymous said...

Toyin is very correct...Na those husband snatchers she dey talk to...They will all rot in hell...

Anonymous said...

Yes I do...vry right....NB:vry smart to shed light on ur diction b4 pple do.Work on it tho

Anonymous said...

i understand!

Anonymous said...

i understand!

Anonymous said...

ƔєA̲̅Ñ’ so damn right,I assume smtin must ve hapned to her b4 dis write up...pls ladies letz stand up41anodr.

Hayzed said...

Ok....I hope her Johnson's not cheating yet now putting the blame on women....#just saying#

Livvsreamblog said...

Seriously,women are more desperate in nature than men....we men just fall victim most time

Anonymous said...

Pls who is trying to share Toyin's hubby with her? Take it easy with the ranting abeg.

Anonymous said...

This used to be the norm, but not anymore. some men are now worse than women. Shameful!

Anonymous said...

E Pele oo, Madam Toyin. Yes. We do mind ur English. U are a graduate, so much is expected from u regarding ur written English. After all u ar a 'role model'. *tongue out*. Dat long write up from u is shocking. Bcos dat was d reckless life u lived b4. Sleeping with married men, fighting for men at movie locations, smoking, drinking, destroying homes etc. So for u to now stand on d pulpit to preach is like counting ur past sins. I pity u. Go nd do ur penance wit God!!! Rubbish.

Anonymous said...

♏Ñ” no c ham oooo.

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The msg is very clear..she's talking to home wreckers n bf snatchers...

Unknown said...

is nice write-up, let who have ear listing to what the church is preaching, aunt linda why u know dey approved my comments, wetin i do?i will be appreciating if u start approving my comment. because am still one of ur best reader in ur blog thanks.

Olajumoke said...

Maybe someone is sharing Niyi Johnson with her...Truth be told, we women are our own worst enemy. Envy, Backbite, Gossip and all sorts of ungodly stuffs just to see a fellow woman like u feel sad.
That's why guys life is so simple

Anonymous said...

I love you Toyin, but you need to go back to school. Your command of English is appalling

Unknown said...

If u ask me na who I go ask?

Ruth Dulac said...

She's talking about the same thing I was talking about when I wrote "Dear Thirsty Ladies". Do check it out thanks. You can google it "Dear Thirsty Ladies" by Ruth Dulac

Tpryce said...

I totallY agree.100percent....linda do u need eye glasses.otondo

Anonymous said...

I totally agree with her 101 percent. Buh my dear if I was u I'd save my strength bcos women will always be dis way till d end of d world

Unknown said...

She is married now, she doesnt want karma to bang on her...begging ladies to back off her husband. Thats what she's being doing before getting married

Anonymous said...

In English please..... jeez lol @ women back bites women. Maybe ur man likes a woman who speaks proper English and don't blame ur bad English on being Nigerian Datz absurd.

Anonymous said...

So when a nigerian who has done primary-6yrs + secondary -6yrs =12yrs of learning english stands up to say am Nigerian so forgive that i cant speak english i'm worried. Are you saying am Nigerian so am not intelligent, is that ok?

If you can’t speak english then i hope you can read and write in a Nigerian language confidently.

Girls have been taught from a young age to grow up, marry & have babies. So from an early age they start seeking approval from the opposite sex causes them to compete. We should try to stop bringing each other down but begin with young girls

Francis said...

She does have a point. I disagree with d part where she calls men Weak . Men aint weak they just act d fool most times to please women so don't be fooled thinking they aint aware of what they do.The aspect of women hating on other women happens on a daily basis cos all d other women out there want a ready made man,None is willing to grow with any man I suppose that's why a lot of relationships n marriages fail cos both parties usually go into it with hidden motives. If u have d mentality of say if u suffer with man him come make am say him go leave u.U have bigger issues urself than u can imagine.It shows u aint close to God. Even tho I thought some parts of ur english was bad u r right u r nigerian n not british.I suppose I made a mistake or two here as well.

Subomi said...

make sense but she should name names and come clean with who made her write this.

THE BLESSED ONE said...

True...Women are always in competition with themselves but public figures who can't write well should simply get themselves a publicist who can communicate their thoughts in refined and understandable English instead of writing a footnote of excuses on why your English is terrible. Nobody is above making mistakes but as an entertainer or public figure, you should always strive to portray yourself in positive light!

Son of Man said...

Well i am a man, and i am glad you ended it with its your OWN personal thought.

Son of Man said...

yes women do jealous other women.. that i know for a fact.

Anonymous said...

What a write-up. Stay in school kids.

Anonymous said...

can she please go and take an English course, warrisit biko nu?

Unknown said...

What does that suppose to mean?

Unknown said...

SO F**kING TRUTH. ****QUEENMAYA****

mummy3 said...

True talk, lol @ am Nigerian not British

Anonymous said...

true talk

Naveah said...

Madam Toyin Aimakhu, if you aren’t British then you should have written your thoughts down in your native dialect or better yet, find someone who paid attention when they were teaching ABC in school to write it for you. This is a shame and your facetious “I am Nigerian and not British” at the end was not cute, it simply shows that you refuse to take responsibility for your shortcoming. Wole Soyinka is Nigerian, not British BUT he’s managed to gain full command of the language to where he was rewarded for it with a Nobel. Do NOT insult the rest of us Nigerians who paid attention in English classes and learned the required language of the country in which like you, we were born and raised. Even with a smart phone you are writing nonsense then have the nerve to excuse it. Get a tutor and go back to basics, there is no shame in self improvement. I really hope you don’t speak as horribly as you write. I would hope that maybe constant texting and twittering has ruined a skill I hope you possessed previously.

As for your complaint about women “snatching” other women’s men, this is an old story. How about not chastising women for once, be original and write a piece about MEN who can’t keep their penis’ in their pants, huh? How about writing a piece about grown men who seem to be hypnotized by boobs to the point of forgetting THE VOWS THEY TOOK before GOD and their family to be true? STOP BLAMING WOMEN, while there are some who are brazen in their pursuit, there are many more who don’t even know sometimes that these men are marry but accept whatever story is being peddled to them. You are part of the problem. It takes two to tango, if you blame the women then equal blame must be apportioned to the men as well.

nkiru said...

i agree with her but Linda am nt living with her to know where she is coming from na! lol

Anonymous said...

It's so disgusting wen people give such excuses,it's just to cover up the fact that they can't speak correct English

ayino said...

WE KNW YOUR TYPE ,SHE'S REFERING TO YOU

Anonymous said...

Hahaha Toyin Iwo olosho see Wetin u compose??
All d married men wey u don fuck nko??
D1 wey dey abeokuta nko??i won't mention names oo.dis is d wife of d married man u 1nce ruined his home @abk.Pls may God Judge u!!See all d stupid grammers sef

Anonymous said...

God made women to be responsible for the survival of the next generation. That is why a preggy woman who fails to eat properly will be deprived of her body's nutrients in favour of her child. Also women, in order to ensure their children survive, instinctually, go for men with 'good' / strong genes. In earlier times, they went for the best wrestler in the village; the best hunter; the richest man in the village. These are signs of successful or strong genes which the women hope will be passed on to their children by these men. Nobi them do, na them genes and they can't help it. Coming here to preach or hope it won't happen is a waste of time. Those instincts are still with women - they go for well educated men (even if he is poor, its is temporary, cos it is expected he will in time get a good job). The go for fine or well-built men in the hope these traits will be passed on to their children!tearun the

Anonymous said...

i wanted to comment on her grammar but since she already apologized,nothing else to say.ZAINA

Anonymous said...

The woman is telling the.truth! Leave her alone. What has her english got to do with her message? Many of you are actually worse. Focus on the.message!

Anonymous said...

An example of a woman being another woman's problem. I don't need to ask y u insulted someone husband that way cos d reasons are obivious
1) The words hit u hard 2) U stole another woman's husband

Anonymous said...

chai!!!! there is god ooo so semantic and her deep down Yoruba English almost got my neck twisted ................. too much of Yoruba movies . but she made so point sha but all i can see is 'woman" woman" woman" who is woman ? some are woman, girls and lady ...... that God am not in the category of the people she is referring too and toyin funny girl u re getting it back now after swimming in that ocean now u wont let others enjoy ur husband !!!1 lemme give u a hit remember last two years at duchess i was with my uncle and u were seducing my old uncle dont he look married to u? i am wondering maybe becos of his expensive look u couldnt just stay off but he didnt give a look becos he roles with clean girls and at that time he was sleeping with tonto dikeh nd bougght her a hummer jeep my point is if other "WOMEN" wants to enjoy ur husband let them because u ve enjoyed other "WOMEN'S husband in the past ............ linda if u like no post my comment

Anonymous said...

No no no...but why?we need DNA test,I suspect U R related to madam at d top...
Toyin ah!

Anonymous said...

Oya don't start from the scratch nah! Keep chasing after married men! When their wives come for you... you wie understand!

She is speaking the truth and you say she's being self righteous... you even still went on to say that she married a "single puppet" see hate and bitterness! pele! Don't worry! If you're patient enough, and you stop hating on other people, your own will come!

Ai ko fa le.. ifa ti n se! women! Always hating on each other! I can't understand it! Nonsense!

Anonymous said...

chai!!!! there is god ooo so "semantic" and her deep down Yoruba English almost got my neck twisted ................. too much of Yoruba movies . but she made some point sha but all i can see is 'woman" woman" woman" who are the woman ? some are woman, girls and ladies ...... that God am not in the category of the people she is referring too...... and toyin funny girl u re getting it back now after swimming in that ocean, now u wont let others enjoy ur husband !!!1 lemme give u a hit, remember last two years at duchess club i was with my uncle and u were seducing my old uncle with ur eyes making him want to come to u, dont he look married to u? i am wondering maybe becos of his expensive look u couldnt just stay off but he didnt give u a look becos he roles with clean girls and at that time he was sleeping with tonto dikeh nd bougght her a hummer jeep my point is, if other "WOMEN" wants to enjoy ur husband let them because u ve enjoyed other "WOMEN'S husband in the past ............ linda if u like no post my comment

Anonymous said...

the english is not the problem but the message. Well said Toyin.

MAD GIST HERE!!!

Anonymous said...

Wetin u want mk she talk ? Or don't u know there's serious poverty in our land? U & I know that poverty has nothing to do with somebody with a heart. So if Na money collect & leave d weak man alone. No permant d collection of money cos everything in life has expiry date. As u waka come Na so another go waka come. Don't forget once a weak man always a weak man lol

Anonymous said...

Lol y some plp no dey hide there shame self after all she wrote what u got out of it is hate. Haba d guilty runs when no man pursew

Anonymous said...

Bad belle. Wetin happen. U get her point or u no get am. Some plp are just bitter as far as am concerned her message was clear

Anonymous said...

If u write anything and you knw it's a lie may God punish u and make ur life miserable,if u come here to write negative abt her knwing well its all lies may u neva find favour in the eyes of God and man...she said I thought.. hv u ever heard she was linked with any married man,what's the blunder we women yes she's right...Linda pls post my comment

Anonymous said...

That's exactly her point am sure most of you causing her are women smh

Anonymous said...

What blunder we women so is that the blunder read the message and leave the english

Anonymous said...

Dear I concur with u who Eva come here to write false story abt her may God perish the person s life...women we like to badmouth

Anonymous said...

Stupid people pls point out anywhere she's being linkd wit married man.

kike said...

Lmao @ calling tonto dikeh a clean girl....your uncle is a mugu .

Anonymous said...

Toyin olodo rabata..oju eja lo mo je....

Toronto Finest said...

Stop hating... With her bad english.. she is still better than you one million times.

Toronto Finest said...

Stop hating... With her bad english.. she is still better than you one million times.

Anonymous said...

You living in london as an illegal immigrant doesnt give you the right to insult others.. idiot

Anonymous said...

You living in london as an illegal immigrant doesnt give you the right to insult others.. idiot

seunLondon said...

Am an advocate of good grammar...yes, she made her point but in a bad taste...y am I even replying a dumbass!!!

Olaide said...

Toyin so u no go school
.

Anonymous said...

Not everyone had the opportunity to afford good education. As long as you got the message, that's what counts!

Anonymous said...

ENGLISH IS A BITTER LEMON

Anonymous said...

Maryann u take style wicked small oh. Lool

@MEETD®EALEVANS™ said...

Rubbish, if president jona call u now tell me say u nor go give am kponmor. Forming frenzy

lesbehonest said...

Are you bisexual or something.. Hit me up. In a big time lesbo boo

Neymar said...

Sure u do! Nice write up to

Anonymous said...

Na today u know?
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Anonymous said...

Myopic mind you've got,smh4u

Anonymous said...

Ppl like u are d reason why OP (off point) came to be. Wtf! U don't knw those men are married? How will u knw na? Whn the only thing u need is d comfort they're giving u. Idiot. Myopic short term purpose bastards everywhr

Anonymous said...

Ok so dey can collect d money abi?mtchwwww!!!u don't smell what u won't eat,yes we women need to build ourselves up n nt tear each oda down,plus I love me all my fellow sisters just stay away 4rm my man and we'll be good dats all

Anonymous said...

She can't speak English, So?. Let oyinbos too come and speak any of our languages fluently in Nigeria.

Anonymous said...

Who or what designated man as the head? Head of what exactly?

The worse thing a woman does for herself is believing that she is beneath a man.

Anonymous said...

.... story for d gods'..is dat not suppose to be her past? just because u've sinned differently doesn't make u a saint'... kindly respect urself ok'

Anonymous said...

Gossip man' u shud face ur flirty self; instead of pointing accessing fingers' am certain u were once a dog or probably still one'... hiss'

Fashion Xpress said...

Thank you for your comment! Smart move, joy killers can ruin your dreams and aspirations, I had a lot of those around me and got rid of them one by one. I did do what I wanted and I'm still on it and I would honestly say not bad at all!
The second aspect is what made me take time to comment. Well said, once a man showed his intents my first questions are: single? Married? If he was married, Omg no! There's no need to even talk! Redirect him home. That's what a lot of people these days don't do... always going in for the kill ... All they see is $$$$$. The moral decadence we now see is shocking and no I'm not OLD or wrinkly, I'm not a Jesus woman either. I just have good self esteem and the determination to work hard. I'll rather flip burgers than have a man flip me around doggy style for a couple $$$. Keep your standards high! Keep doing what you are doing and don't Change your line of thoughts. I can tell you, a lot of men are looking for that (Ada Ada Over Caro) And when you do raise a daughter... pass on those values to her. If you would ever want to have a healthy conversation and support, woman to woman at any time feel free to hit me up! 7AD4AE10 BBM

Anonymous said...

U are replying a dumb ass bcuz u are foolish.

Abuki said...

It's totally true... Women please lets stop standin on each others throats, lets stop beefing each other, chasing each others spouse! lets act matured. If a married man is chasing u, flee! we can help each other... although they usually say women are more than men, everybody go get him own jawe!

Anonymous said...

Wetin we women go do. Women population to men is 2/3 of world population of 6 or 7 billion. So even if we assume 4 billion women as against 2 billion men that are matured for relationships, we will still have 2 billion desperate women looking for husbands,fiancees, boyfriends, sugar daddys out there. Na make the one wey don grab hin copy make e hol am tight cos we don't mind chopping out of your own pepper soup or isiewu while we still dey find ingredients to cook our own.. Abi wetin una think say i talk? Life is short jor..

Anonymous said...

Abeg when so naija people go stop dey talk or respond to msgs like person wey birdflu dey worry?nothing do oyinbo wey she write at all thats why i love chinko people they dont care they adresses everything dia own way likewise japanese cos like she already said she no be britiko as all naija ppl wan speack fucking british english she na una papa fucking language ?and you people wey dey complain ask me if dem fit write anyting at all why are most nigerian idiots full of condemnations? i taya for una ooo Toyin na tru you talk God bless you girls ladis women must change your ways
as for Linda kip pretending like say u no see people message u dey claim big girl e dey your body na we made you if you like no post this comment na ur problem be dat
Tnk you

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Abeg my people why some ladies they run afer anoda woman man while some single nice men are outta dea?well any God fearing clean descent single pretty lady out there for a handsome charming nice God fearing clean very comfortable charming fine bohboh to settle wit?please i no need send me ipad money abi my mama roof house dey lick babes o oo ill prefer single young lady living abroad either europe america please no after 1 or second hand (okirika) babe ooo
be God fearing odouless and responsible
God wil perfect da rest .
contact( dondave25@yahoo.com )
no time wasters please only serious geunine babe

Unknown said...

proofreading goes a long way though. she gotta get pple to proofread for her boy! kmt

Anonymous said...

nice one.....but truth is dos with envy and wicked spirit dont end up well. Am so thankful that there is God, he pays them the way they treat and wish pple bad. All women should purge envy and jealousy spirit out of their system.

Unknown said...

Lib readers are jjst crazy

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