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Tuesday 12 August 2014

'How I wish I were still a virgin at 39' - talking drum queen Ara says

Queen of talking drums, Ara, in a recent interview said if at all she has any regrets in her 39 years of living, it would be that she's no longer a virgin. She however said she looks beyond the regret because she lost it while still married to her now estranged husband and the father of her son, Saliu Olalekan, whom she later found out was still legally married with kids after tying the knot with her at an elaborate wedding ceremony in June 2009.
'How I wish I were still a virgin. Yeah, but it's a good thing I have a beautiful son from my previous marriage" she told Encomium.
On the state of her divorce from the father of her son, Ara said;
'It is not even a divorce. As at the time we got married, he was still legally married to another woman. I wasn't aware. So automatically our marriage was annulled. We lived together for three years. I don't have any regret because a beautiful child came out of it. If I say I have a regret, then my son will be a regret. I don't have to regret it because of my son." she said

67 comments:

Xmoke said...

Hmm... No comment

Anonymous said...

Hmmm, human beings could be wicked ohhh. even though she's got no regrets i bet she's hurting inside...her wish is lame though
Princess

Ceeflo said...

Seriously? That's her regret?...She's had life easy then...buh why would you want to be a virgin at 39??.....go back to your drums woman!

Unknown said...

Eyah but it not possible. Even 14yrs re getting pregnant. No virgins in Nigeria.

Zini said...

some men are actually devils and do not deserve to be on earth... wtf!

Bishop Dammy said...
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Unknown said...

chai.....

tuffcookiey said...

Wickedness of Men.. very deceitful. . Nne sorry. . I hope he pays for child support?

Unknown said...

Been a virgin doesn't make u any diff, y does ladies always fink ur V is so important mtcheeew

Anonymous said...

tnk God u hv a lovely child,dt is ur joy,i pray God will give u ur own hubby.as for dt man live him he will reap wat he sow

Anonymous said...


Ok ma!ndo, sorry abt dat,let's move now#lyrics

Anonymous said...

Na Yoraba men way

#king said...

Ok............................#KingOfKings

Aviky said...

Some men sha.....

Alloy Chikezie said...

So she is indirectly saying she wished she never gave birth to the beautiful son, because there was no way she would have remained a virgin and gave birth to the beautiful son she is thanking God she has


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Anonymous said...

Funny #bright bravo#

ary said...

but you are not so shut up about it

Unknown said...

The man deceived her.Maybe she meant to say she regretted loosing her virginity to a deceitful man but took consolation in the fact that her lovely son came out from that relationship.

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm
Face of lib

Debbie Chelsea said...

eya.....sowie madam

Anonymous said...

She fit use needle and thread take tie am nah! mtcheew

Unknown said...

No woman will be a virgin at 25 nt to talk about 39

famonzo said...

She can regret going into marriage with the guy but talking about virginity while u claim to have an adorable son? U can as well block ya VEEjay again. SMH

famonzo said...

I am an advocate of knowing almost all the family members of whoever u r getting married to, iin order to avoid such calamituos end in marraige.

Gozie said...

If wishes were tracks, the blind will race. Place Ara, save the rest for ur biography, titled "I wish I was a Virgin!"

Unknown said...

OKESSSSSS

Miss tiana said...

Men!ladies do your research before saying I do.

Unknown said...

Hmmmm...is well.@Bishop..i need ur prayers plz.cos am in search of my own kanye.

Anonymous said...

Some men sha.so is still legally married nd still went ahead to do an elaborate wedding....hmmm diarisGod o.

Anonymous said...

Hmmm, I knw most women do regret that they are disvirgin by a wrong man. But all d same, you can stil be a virgin in christ Jesus by flee from fornication until you get married.

6 reasons our prayer failed said...

There is no advantage of being a virgin, thank God your eyes has opened now.

Unknown said...

MEN ARE BASTARD U SEE WHY I CANT WAIT TOO LONG TO DIS-VIRGIN BECAUSE IT DOESN'T WORTH IT........ MEN ARE FROM THE PITY OF HELL VERY PRETENTIOUS, IMAGINE I JUST CANT HELP BUT TO CURSE THAT DEVILISH HUSBAND OF URS ANUOFIA RERERE...............

Unknown said...

It too late to cry when the head has been cut off

Anonymous said...

I can't imagine d kinda pain she must b feeling,good thing she gracefully did dat interview like a grown woman should,bt biko next time u seff hire private investigator b4 marrying someone #okbye

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Where is my comment linda

purity C said...

Hahaha, Linda am reading comments o

Anonymous said...

She's talkn trash. Uo got married to aa man married wit kids, uo nver find out until 3rd year of ur marriage, dnt fool us. LIB Princess!

haleenation said...

You still rock though... N she's got a child too.
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Tri. said...

You're quite obviously a retard or possibly with an IQ below -1

Buyer seller place said...

Lovely wedding cake.

oscar said...

In order words you are not an inteligent woman . You knew he hadawife and kid,,,so you didntalso know if the man has a mother father or brothers lie lie ,by the way being avirgin doesnt make youa good girl

JOYCHY said...

Some men are just Beasts in human form. It hurts mehnnn, but u hv gat 2 braze up Ara.

Mehnnn dis ur braids mehnn, If I try it, my name is sorry, my hair go just finish.

Olubukola Ozone said...

Well, sorry u ar not anymore, and nothing can be done to help it

Anonymous said...

How on earth can a man be sooooooo heartless

ty said...

FRUSTRATED IGBO HARLOT!!!

Anonymous said...

@ nngozie peace,,n ur father,brothers,male friends,husband to be, if u ll ever get one,,n ur sons if God ll ever give u one re all bastards,,,,,fool

Anonymous said...

Let's give you another chance Alloy. Start from the beginning, read the post again. *Reading time elapses* Do you now understand? 0kay you're welcome ----C21

Anonymous said...

I know some. So shhhh!

Unknown said...

Hmmmm. I wonder whats beautiful in ur story nw

Anonymous said...

Seriously is nothing private anymore, we are not interested if you wish you were a virgin or not smh!!! Every single thing people want to share, very vain and selfish, live your life, and stop telling us what you get to every minute, hour day, month, etc!!! Get a life jeez!!! Whizman

Anonymous said...

im 25 and i am so shhhhh

Anonymous said...

U very silly for saying dat...I was a Virgin rill I married @34...U think all women r d same.....retard dude like U

Anonymous said...

it is funny how no one is praising this lady for reserving her virginity to 34 its unfortunate such a mean man took it. Kudos ARA for showing such chastity you are now a model to me

Unknown said...

Ara Araldite will close up ur veejay....case closed..

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Anonymous said...

If being a virgin means nothing to u my dear it realy means alot to God if u dnt knw.Please man n displease God?

Anonymous said...

Am all against domestic violence buh gurls with brains like you deserve a 2 by 4 bcox if dy ignore ur stupidty, u wud neva mentally germinate...........#cheEzyjayne

Anonymous said...

And how do you know dt dere are no 25yr old virgin,what made you to arrive @ such a generalization???perhaps the kind of mum/cousins and sisters you have??what a libtard#cheEzyjayne

Anonymous said...

Virginty in marriage, miscarriage in d convent.. Hmmm, irony of life!

APPLE said...

Use super glue for your pussy MUMU.

Unknown said...

Miss Virginia..hmmm...no comment!!!

Anonymous said...

She can be a born again virgin. That exists.

Anonymous said...

Why do people feel been a Virgin makes any difference?when i was going to get married, i chose a lady who's gone through bad relationships over a Nigerian University graduate who was still a virgin...that was the best decision i ever made in my life...She should grow up and deal with her issues....what about ladies who were raped?

Dike F(xyz) said...

I know your type! You are already fucking every Guy that comes ur way and you're looking for any Lame Excuse to justify it.

Frustrated Bitchy Animal!

Anonymous said...

Been a virgin is nothing??? did I hear that? it issssssssssss, some people are so sad they are no more.Bravo girl at 34 u still were.

Anonymous said...

Linda are still a virgin like Toolz said she still is???heheheheh linda linda.

Anonymous said...

dat doesnt mean u shuldnt move on girl, wiseup

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